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DB in NJ
02-14-2008, 11:26 AM
Joseph Michael Anthony.

I was living in Iowa at the time, and I remember coming to the WTM boards asking for prayer after the doctor told me that there was no heartbeat. I printed out the messages of encouragement and support; I still have them in my "treasure drawer."

Ten years ago today, the bleeding started. I had been on bedrest, trying to prevent the unpreventable. I remember crying in the shower, getting dressed, and going to the Valentine's Banquet at church. There was nothing more that could be done to save my little one.

Ten years ago...

While I'm sure that any of you who were here then have forgotten about it, I have not forgotten the love and support and encouragement I received from you. You helped me through the most difficult, painful time of my adult life, which made it also one of the most precious times of my adult life.

Thank you.

Mad Charity
02-14-2008, 11:28 AM
Joseph Michael Anthony.

I was living in Iowa at the time, and I remember coming to the WTM boards asking for prayer after the doctor told me that there was no heartbeat. I printed out the messages of encouragement and support; I still have them in my "treasure drawer."

Ten years ago today, the bleeding started. I had been on bedrest, trying to prevent the unpreventable. I remember crying in the shower, getting dressed, and going to the Valentine's Banquet at church. There was nothing more that could be done to save my little one.

Ten years ago...

While I'm sure that any of you who were here then have forgotten about it, I have not forgotten the love and support and encouragement I received from you. You helped me through the most difficult, painful time of my adult life, which made it also one of the most precious times of my adult life.

Thank you.
I'm so sorry. I will cry with you.

MIch elle
02-14-2008, 11:29 AM
:(

JudoMom
02-14-2008, 11:32 AM
(((DB)))

King Alfred Academy
02-14-2008, 11:32 AM
Hugs to you and your family today. I am sorry to hear that but thankful you found some needed support and encouragement from the women (and men) on these boards.

Rich with Kids
02-14-2008, 11:32 AM
Joseph Michael Anthony.

I was living in Iowa at the time, and I remember coming to the WTM boards asking for prayer after the doctor told me that there was no heartbeat. I printed out the messages of encouragement and support; I still have them in my "treasure drawer."

Ten years ago today, the bleeding started. I had been on bedrest, trying to prevent the unpreventable. I remember crying in the shower, getting dressed, and going to the Valentine's Banquet at church. There was nothing more that could be done to save my little one.

Ten years ago...

While I'm sure that any of you who were here then have forgotten about it, I have not forgotten the love and support and encouragement I received from you. You helped me through the most difficult, painful time of my adult life, which made it also one of the most precious times of my adult life.

Thank you.

{{{DB in NJ}}} I'll be praying for you and I hope you find some comfort today.

Jean in Newcastle
02-14-2008, 11:34 AM
Praying for you and your family today.

yvonne
02-14-2008, 11:37 AM
(((((DB))))) Praying for God's comfort, strength and peace for you today.

OneRoomHomeSchool
02-14-2008, 11:41 AM
{{{hugs!}}}

Sue G in PA
02-14-2008, 11:42 AM
I know how difficult it is. So glad you found comfort here during your time of need!

Mom2jnb
02-14-2008, 11:43 AM
(((DB)))

Sending love and prayers your way!
Alison

HomeOnTheRanch
02-14-2008, 11:44 AM
((((DB))))

This week marks 12 years since we found out we were losing our little one.

Cadam
02-14-2008, 11:44 AM
(((DB)))I am so sorry for our loss. I am going to go hug my 10 yo.

JenneinAZ
02-14-2008, 11:53 AM
I wasn't here. But I will cry with you.

Jenne in AZ
(dd9, ds7, ds3, newbie in September)
(Sprog and Mouse)

sleepy
02-14-2008, 11:57 AM
I can only imagine how difficult today must be for you. I will be thinking about you and little Joseph today.:(

RegularMom
02-14-2008, 12:16 PM
I wasn't here 10 years ago, either, but I know this pain as well. My twins would have been 9 right now. Sending good thoughts and hugs to you today.

Lisa at Home
02-14-2008, 12:25 PM
May peace beyond understanding comfort you and make you whole.

(((hugs)))

~Lisa

PariSarah
02-14-2008, 12:29 PM
Peace to you, DB.

Colleen
02-14-2008, 12:38 PM
I can't imagine how difficult that must have been, (((DB))). I was not here ten years ago to lift you up, but I will do so today.

Mrs. Readsalot
02-14-2008, 12:43 PM
I have been thinking about you all morning. Sometimes when things like that happen it seems as though time stands still. You can vividly remember everything about the day. I am sure today must be very difficult for you. One of my sons best friends would have been 13 today. When he was 8 he fell through ice on a pond and died. His mom is a close friend and fellow homeschooler. We always make sure she knows that we remember and think about her precious son on this day. My thoughts and prayers will be with you throughout the day.

PixieKris
02-14-2008, 12:55 PM
Peace and *hugs* on this day. I was not here then, but my heart aches for you now.

Robin in Tx
02-14-2008, 01:06 PM
What a sweet, moving post. ((DB)), may you be granted peace and joy today.

With love,
Robin

Michelle in MO
02-14-2008, 01:08 PM
Such a sad day for you and your family. Please, accept my hugs and prayers through cyberspace, and may God bless your family with great peace this day.

Meliss
02-14-2008, 01:27 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Jennifer in MI
02-14-2008, 01:47 PM
I'm so sorry DB. I still remember the days of my miscarraiges as well. I kept emails and letters I received afterward and they give me comfort to this day. I'll keep you in my prayers.

sdWTMer
02-14-2008, 01:47 PM
So very sorry for your loss! It's heart wrenching. (((HUGS)))

Adrianne
02-14-2008, 01:54 PM
(((DB))))

Adrianne

Milseain
02-14-2008, 02:07 PM
(((DB)))
I'm sorry for your loss.
I know how difficult it is.
I will cry with you.
:(

Jackie in AR
02-14-2008, 03:41 PM
(((DB))) I am so very sorry.

Wishing you peace this Valentine's Day.

Tracey in TX
02-14-2008, 03:58 PM
(((Hugs))) Sorry for the loss of precious boy. It's the worst thing any mother could endure. Hopefully you had a solid group of friends and family with whom to help you in the grieving process, and celebrate your love for the unborn child.
Little Soccer Dude's middle name is Noah, for a darling boy who lived a mere 2wks. Each person deserves a legacy, and this is what we could do for him.

unsinkable
02-14-2008, 04:12 PM
DB, I'm so sorry. You and yours have my prayers.

Lorna
02-14-2008, 04:13 PM
I can't imagine how you must be feeling today and every day.
Sending my thoughts and love to you.

Old Dominion Heather
02-14-2008, 04:30 PM
I wasn't here then, but I'll be praying for you today.

DB in NJ
02-14-2008, 06:55 PM
WOW! Once again, I can count on the people on this board when I need them the most.

I am touched beyond words at the kindness here. I left to spend the day with my Great Aunt, whom I see maybe once or twice a year. She called this morning to see if we wanted to go spend the day with her; spur of the moment kinda thing. We had a wonderful day together, and to come home to all of these comforting posts is just.....well, I'm in tears.

Bless you all!!! I love you dearly.

Donna

prairiegirl
02-14-2008, 07:02 PM
(((DB))), I am so sorry. I pray that you are surrounded by peace and love today.


Julia
mom of 3 (8,7,5)

ELaurie
02-14-2008, 07:04 PM
Reading of your loss brought tears to my eyes - I will be praying for you today.

Denise in IN
02-14-2008, 08:16 PM
DB, I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby boy. Prayers and hugs for you today as you remember him.

cricket1178
02-14-2008, 08:16 PM
I wasn't here then, but I'll pray today. (((DB))).

Cathy in IL
02-14-2008, 09:03 PM
((DB)) Hoping you will feel peace and comfort today.

Mamagistra
02-15-2008, 12:49 AM
Oh, (((DB))). I'm sharing a tear with you.