Twinmom
05-16-2008, 05:44 PM
OK, I'm beginning to believe that DD8 may have mild dyslexia. We've been doing remedial phonetic work in reading and she's done really well (improved a lot!), but often slides back into flipping some letters and words, continues to be confused about vowels/digraphs she's already studied, and really struggles with spelling. Reading is not fun for her...she is proud when she can do it, but she tires easily when reading and slides backwards in ability quickly if we aren't reading all the time. She stresses constantly over just the thought of making mistakes, and I'm constantly reassuring her that she's not "stupid." Actually, she's quite bright...but something is going on with reading and a bit with short term memory with math. We're moving towards a very visually based, kinetic sort of curriculum set, which seems to help a lot.
I am wondering whether or not to put her through all the testing for dyslexia...is it worth it, under the circumstances? I have a background that includes specialized training in child development/mental health issues and I have a basic knowledge of what she'll need academically (and have already put some of it into place), but I'm not an expert in LDs. Would testing get me on the right road in terms of a great educational plan? Also (and probably most importantly!), DD has some emotional issues that she's dealing with...she has MAJOR test/school anxiety (taking the CAT was a HUGE issue!) and is in a sensitive emotional state due to abandonment issues. When tested in the past by someone other than Mom, she's completely frozen up and answered very little. We've had her in counseling for a year and have made great strides, but she's still finding her way in terms of handling her emotions visa vis school. (Home school is helping a lot...and it helps to have a therapist for a mom! ;)) Her therapist feels she's doing well and is of normal intelligence, but she's also not an LD expert...
Truly, it's hard to see the forest for the trees with my precious DD, and it's esp. hard when we have no family medical history on her! Anyway, I'd love any feedback on what you all would do under the circumstances.
Thanks!
I am wondering whether or not to put her through all the testing for dyslexia...is it worth it, under the circumstances? I have a background that includes specialized training in child development/mental health issues and I have a basic knowledge of what she'll need academically (and have already put some of it into place), but I'm not an expert in LDs. Would testing get me on the right road in terms of a great educational plan? Also (and probably most importantly!), DD has some emotional issues that she's dealing with...she has MAJOR test/school anxiety (taking the CAT was a HUGE issue!) and is in a sensitive emotional state due to abandonment issues. When tested in the past by someone other than Mom, she's completely frozen up and answered very little. We've had her in counseling for a year and have made great strides, but she's still finding her way in terms of handling her emotions visa vis school. (Home school is helping a lot...and it helps to have a therapist for a mom! ;)) Her therapist feels she's doing well and is of normal intelligence, but she's also not an LD expert...
Truly, it's hard to see the forest for the trees with my precious DD, and it's esp. hard when we have no family medical history on her! Anyway, I'd love any feedback on what you all would do under the circumstances.
Thanks!