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LisaK in VA
04-26-2010, 08:36 PM
My oldest son has one more year in the Virginia Virtual Academy... after which time, I plan to completely oversee his education again.

He's been in K12/VAVA since 3rd grade... and has been accelerated one grade level in LA (which is already considered 1 year ahead), math (2 years), and science (2 years).

He is *very* good at the mechanics of grammar, reading (very literal, has difficulties with inferences, etc.), writing, and has a pretty voluminous vocabulary for a child of his age. He is truly, noticeably gifted in communication/LA -- but he doesn't love it.

While I am hoping his desires change over the next 6-7 years, here is what dh and I have been talking about...

Since we are getting ready to pull him out of K12 starting in the 7th grade, we will back down the level of difficulty on grammar/literature analysis, to a 7th grade level. The idea being, give him some time to mature and give some of those cognitive connections a bit more time to develop, and making the acceleration more HIS choice, than "I'm your mom, and this is the level you need to work at" kind of thing. I don't want it to be watered down, but I don't need it to be a constant push, either.

Instead of my pushing him in areas I *know* he naturally excels, I want to give him more room to grow in different areas. For example, right now, he wants to write a book (thinks he'll make a million dollars doing so ;)), so by backing off the "accelerated curriculum" and giving him something that helps him write a book.

He also wants to start taking a modern language (as opposed to just Latin), spend some time really getting in to ancient Greece and Rome, and things like that.

Does this make any sense? Or am I nuts to back down on some of the "formal" accelerations?

Most of his work needs to be done independently, as I will have a pre-schooler, a Ker, a 3rd grader and a 4th grader when we begin this program. I'm still wondering how in the world I'm going to juggle it all... but baby steps.

JennW in SoCal
04-26-2010, 08:58 PM
I don't think you are nuts at all. 7th and 8th grades are the perfect time to hit the "pause" button and let our kids explore their interests. It isn't as if we are just saying "watch tv all day" -- everything your ds wants to do IS learning, and as you said, he will continue to grow and mature so that high school will be a natural next step.

You aren't backing down on "formal acceleration", either. Not every young teen wants to write a novel -- it requires planning and dedication that is advanced for his age. It isn't unheard of either. Is your ds inspired by Christopher Paolini, the homeschooler who wrote Eragon as a teen? Either way, I don't see Language Arts as having a grade level -- there is always more grammar to absorb, more books to read, more writing to be done.

Bring him home, let him pursue all those great interests, and enjoy this special time before high school. I've never regretted doing similar things with my boys when they were at that stage.

dmmetler
04-27-2010, 08:26 AM
I have been convinced (as an in-the trenches teacher) that the best thing ANYONE can do for 7th-8th grade is to pull kids out school, let them explore the world in some way, and grow up a bit. It's just plain a hard age for brain development. I think the IDEAL would be to travel during that time, preferably with some community service-type projects built in. Traditional school at that age is a minefield for kids.

And I've noticed something-since I've been in homeschool groups, it's right at that age that the moms start complaining about the SAME behaviors I saw as a teacher, and have trouble teaching or guiding the child in learning.

Regardless, I think it's a PERFECT time to back off a bit!

KristenS
04-27-2010, 02:15 PM
I think it sounds great. And if he really wants to write a novel, check out www.nanowrimo.org (http://www.nanowrimo.org) or their Young Writers program at ywp.nanowrimo.org ... the young writers site has guidebooks and lessons. Anyway, that's National Novel Writing Month, in November, and the challenge is to write a complete (messy draft) novel in one month. The lessons/guide can be used in October or earlier for planning. He might like that, and it's all free and lots of fun.

There's also a young writer subsection at www.fmwriters.com (http://www.fmwriters.com) ... Forward Motion is a great site for aspiring writers who are serious amateurs.

laurad1125
04-27-2010, 02:47 PM
:iagree:

Those ages are so tough and so much non-academic adjustment has to happen. We're planning to use those years as exploration years. We'll work on some life skills (cooking, money, study skills), explore different languages (to be ready to pick one for high school), explore careers and follow interest led science and arts. We'll keep going with math and language, but I hope to allow a lot of leeway in the other areas.

Colleen in SEVA
04-27-2010, 04:33 PM
http://www.bookartsbash.com/