PhunandFonics
10-22-2009, 01:03 PM
I am driving myself crazy worrying about this child and her math skills. I have three children, two of whom are dyslexic. We've got the reading stuff under control and are moving along nicely. Of my three children, #1 (dyslexic) and #2 are very good at math. It's #3 (severely dyslexic) that is not intuitive in math.
I have bought and owned many excellent math programs that I felt would work with her, but realizing that my time is limited and wanting to focus more on reading, I ultimately decided to use Developmental Math. Honestly, this is the first math program that has been a good fit for all of us and yet I realize that it's not perfect. It is a workbook approach, but I back it up with manipulatives and regularly check to make sure that she is comprehending what she's doing.
Here is my dilemma - I'm not sure if *understanding* is enough. She is 9 years old and finally doing well, but relies so heavily on using her fingers, abacus, or math rods. She needs them for 6+1. She doesn't need help on HOW to do the problem, but computation isn't automatic. I could see that being an issue for say 7+4, but 6+1?? She also has huge issues when they change the format of the equation. She can easily figure out 40+30=70, but if they ask 70=40+?, then she is absolutely lost.
I realize that I *love* math, my boys *love* math, but my daughter struggles. DM has been much better for her, but I am worried that it's not enough and that I should be using something like RightStart or MOTL with her and spending time EVERY day working more intensely.
Am I micromanaging her math? Am I expecting too much? Is understanding and being able to figure it out really enough?
I am comfortable teaching her, I'm just not sure what my goal should be. I find that I am creative and patient, but I do struggle to find enough time in the day to do it all with three kids and meet my other responsibilities. Is it time to bite the bullet and do something more intensive or should I step back and celebrate that she's making progress on her own timetable and quit worrying about keeping up in math??:confused:
Thanks!!!!!
I have bought and owned many excellent math programs that I felt would work with her, but realizing that my time is limited and wanting to focus more on reading, I ultimately decided to use Developmental Math. Honestly, this is the first math program that has been a good fit for all of us and yet I realize that it's not perfect. It is a workbook approach, but I back it up with manipulatives and regularly check to make sure that she is comprehending what she's doing.
Here is my dilemma - I'm not sure if *understanding* is enough. She is 9 years old and finally doing well, but relies so heavily on using her fingers, abacus, or math rods. She needs them for 6+1. She doesn't need help on HOW to do the problem, but computation isn't automatic. I could see that being an issue for say 7+4, but 6+1?? She also has huge issues when they change the format of the equation. She can easily figure out 40+30=70, but if they ask 70=40+?, then she is absolutely lost.
I realize that I *love* math, my boys *love* math, but my daughter struggles. DM has been much better for her, but I am worried that it's not enough and that I should be using something like RightStart or MOTL with her and spending time EVERY day working more intensely.
Am I micromanaging her math? Am I expecting too much? Is understanding and being able to figure it out really enough?
I am comfortable teaching her, I'm just not sure what my goal should be. I find that I am creative and patient, but I do struggle to find enough time in the day to do it all with three kids and meet my other responsibilities. Is it time to bite the bullet and do something more intensive or should I step back and celebrate that she's making progress on her own timetable and quit worrying about keeping up in math??:confused:
Thanks!!!!!