What would you do in thi situation?

[Mary H]

My dh and I have been having a lot of problems lately. I have communicated to him that my love language is affirmation and physical touch, and he does this for like two or three days, then he stops. He has started to affirm other ladies in our church, where they are loking to go to church because of what he is saying instead of God. What can I do in this situation? I have talked to him about things like this but he says that I am being jealous and I am seeing things. PRayers are great right now and if there is anything that can be said about how to handle this (or is this his thorn in the flesh)? Thank You!!

TIA
Mary H

[Liz CA]

A good marriage counselor may be able to straighten this out. There are some really good ones and I think they have a lot to offer when things get difficult. Some offer their services on a sliding scale.My dh and I have been having a lot of problems lately. I have communicated to him that my love language is affirmation and physical touch, and he does this for like two or three days, then he stops. He has started to affirm other ladies in our church, where they are loking to go to church because of what he is saying instead of God. What can I do in this situation? I have talked to him about things like this but he says that I am being jealous and I am seeing things. PRayers are great right now and if there is anything that can be said about how to handle this (or is this his thorn in the flesh)? Thank You!!

TIA
Mary H