TraceyS/FL
07-09-2009, 08:57 AM
Up until this morning at oh, 5am, i never really thought about asking for one from anyone.
We are on tract with our variety of diagnosis - SPD, APD, Vision.... (we get Vision Testing results tomorrow). I got the packet of papers from the Dev Ped yesterday and now i can confirm the appointment they were nice enough to call and give us the end of the month because there is a court case pending.
I started reading "When the Brain Can't Hear" last night. The OT had made the comment that there appears to be a big left side-right side not talking to one another issue (i don't have her results either). The APD testing echos this, and reading the book she fits for issues in that area too.
NOW, she did NOT have a "perfect birth". It's been a roller coaster really since, at the back of my head i've wondered if there was something "more" than what we know.
Back to the birth, they broke my water because she'd been showing distress. At that time there was a HUGE presence of meconium. They assumed that was causing the distress they were seeing, and we decided to do an immediate C-Section..... except, the anesthesiologist was 20 minutes away. Not good - i was at a 6, i went from 7-10 in 15 minutes the first time (different doctor).
The doctor left the room to coordinate stuff, and discovered a visiting Neo-Natoligist was doing rounds. They started planning "plan b" in case the guy didn't make it in time - and plan A for when she was going to take over.
Well sure enough, he didn't make it. She came out arm first with the cord at her shoulder - which was probably what was causing her distress. They had me stop pushing to suction her - i swear it was like 10 minutes, then the Neonat took over. She was pleased with what htey had gotten out of her before her "first breath" and only decided to send to the NICU (and hour away) because she felt the staff just wasn't giving her the attention she needed. She spent 5 days in NICU, appeared to have no breathing issues or other things (it was a fog time for me).
She had a variety of learning issues over the years, and of course her genetic condition, Turner Syndrome, brings on a set of learning issues on it's own. Right now though, other than the struggles in math, i'm not sure how much IS the TS and not others.
So now i have to wonder, was there damaged cause during birth? (and for the record, there is nothing that would be something you'd sue over - that team we had did the amazing job and saved her). We haven't had anything other than what i've mentioned. Would neurological be out of line here? I don't want to step on toes with the PEd Dev, i'm going to have to type up her birth stuff because there isn't enough room on those forms.
I know most people don't have something to pinpoint at birth to say hey, it was probably "that". Up till now, i haven't felt there was any reason to say hey - what about her birth trauma. The doctors have known, and the Ped we saw a few weeks ago was the first one to take notice/be interested. She then gave us all the referrals i'd asked for.....
So as i prep to fill all these new papers out, i'm just wondering......
Thanks for letting me ramble too, any advice would be appreciated.
We are on tract with our variety of diagnosis - SPD, APD, Vision.... (we get Vision Testing results tomorrow). I got the packet of papers from the Dev Ped yesterday and now i can confirm the appointment they were nice enough to call and give us the end of the month because there is a court case pending.
I started reading "When the Brain Can't Hear" last night. The OT had made the comment that there appears to be a big left side-right side not talking to one another issue (i don't have her results either). The APD testing echos this, and reading the book she fits for issues in that area too.
NOW, she did NOT have a "perfect birth". It's been a roller coaster really since, at the back of my head i've wondered if there was something "more" than what we know.
Back to the birth, they broke my water because she'd been showing distress. At that time there was a HUGE presence of meconium. They assumed that was causing the distress they were seeing, and we decided to do an immediate C-Section..... except, the anesthesiologist was 20 minutes away. Not good - i was at a 6, i went from 7-10 in 15 minutes the first time (different doctor).
The doctor left the room to coordinate stuff, and discovered a visiting Neo-Natoligist was doing rounds. They started planning "plan b" in case the guy didn't make it in time - and plan A for when she was going to take over.
Well sure enough, he didn't make it. She came out arm first with the cord at her shoulder - which was probably what was causing her distress. They had me stop pushing to suction her - i swear it was like 10 minutes, then the Neonat took over. She was pleased with what htey had gotten out of her before her "first breath" and only decided to send to the NICU (and hour away) because she felt the staff just wasn't giving her the attention she needed. She spent 5 days in NICU, appeared to have no breathing issues or other things (it was a fog time for me).
She had a variety of learning issues over the years, and of course her genetic condition, Turner Syndrome, brings on a set of learning issues on it's own. Right now though, other than the struggles in math, i'm not sure how much IS the TS and not others.
So now i have to wonder, was there damaged cause during birth? (and for the record, there is nothing that would be something you'd sue over - that team we had did the amazing job and saved her). We haven't had anything other than what i've mentioned. Would neurological be out of line here? I don't want to step on toes with the PEd Dev, i'm going to have to type up her birth stuff because there isn't enough room on those forms.
I know most people don't have something to pinpoint at birth to say hey, it was probably "that". Up till now, i haven't felt there was any reason to say hey - what about her birth trauma. The doctors have known, and the Ped we saw a few weeks ago was the first one to take notice/be interested. She then gave us all the referrals i'd asked for.....
So as i prep to fill all these new papers out, i'm just wondering......
Thanks for letting me ramble too, any advice would be appreciated.